The 13-Week Milestone (What to Expect)
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Charlie is officially 13 weeks old, and if you’ve followed me for a while, you know this is one of my favorite ages. As a breeder, I see this as the "Lightbulb Phase." This is when the puppy brain stops being a chaotic sponge and starts actually processing the world with intent.
If you have a Mini Goldendoodle around this age, here is exactly what is going on in Charlie’s world—and what you should be focused on to keep your training on track.
The "Testing the Waters" Phase
At 13 weeks, Charlie has found his voice—literally. He’s started to "talk back" a little when I give a command he doesn't want to do. This is normal! This isn't aggression; it’s curiosity. He’s wondering, "Do I really have to sit if there’s a squirrel over there?"
My professional advice: Don't let them win. If I give Charlie a command, I ensure he follows through. If I’m not in a position to enforce it, I don't give the command. Consistency at this age prevents a "teenage" nightmare at 6 months.
Physical Growth and The "Puppy Uglies"
Charlie is in that awkward growing stage where his legs seem a bit too long for his body. His coat is also starting to change. While he still has that soft puppy fluff, I’m starting to see the adult waves coming in along his spine.
Because his adult coat is moving in, grooming is non-negotiable. I’m spending 10 minutes every night with a slicker brush and a metal comb. If you aren't sure which tools won't pull on their skin, I’ve put the exact set I use on Charlie on my Gear Page. Getting them used to being handled now is the difference between a dog that loves the groomer and one that has to be sedated.
The focus we have now at 13 weeks all started with the foundation I built during Charlie’s First 48 Hours at Home.
Socialization vs. Public Access
Now that Charlie has had his third round of shots, we are hitting the world harder. But I’m very picky about where we go. At 13 weeks, one "bad" experience with a mean dog can scar a Goldendoodle for life.
We avoid dog parks entirely. Instead, I take Charlie to "neutral" busy spots—like the parking lot of a home improvement store or a quiet park bench. We just sit and watch. I want him to see strollers, wheelchairs, and loud trucks and realize they are "boring."
The Training Pivot
At 13 weeks, we move past just "luring" with treats and start asking for more duration. Charlie can now hold a "Settle" or "Place" for about 3 to 5 minutes while I’m moving around the room.
If your 13-week-old is still jumping on visitors or won't stop nipping at your heels, you’re likely missing the "Bridge" between lure and command. I break down exactly how to bridge that gap in my Puppy Foundations module over at the Goldendoodle Academy. For $45, we can get your pup acting as focused as Charlie is right now.
If you are currently struggling with the 'puppy blues,' remember that this stage is temporary. I talk about the Mental Side of Puppy Training to help you push through.
Final Thoughts on Week 13
Enjoy this stage! They are finally sleeping through the night, their personalities are blooming, and the "puppy breath" is almost gone. Stay firm with your boundaries, keep that brush moving, and remember: you are raising the dog you want to live with for the next 15 years.